http://maymay.net/blog/2005/02/24/new-night-new-attitude/ The brutally honest, first-person account of Meitar Moscovitz's life. Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:14:46 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 http://maymay.net/blog/2005/02/24/new-night-new-attitude/comment-page-1/#comment-4890 mami Sun, 19 Jun 2005 03:09:35 +0000 /?p=190#comment-4890 I leave messages, everywhere but noone never answer, i need help , for a passive aggreassive personality dosorer, i really, wish, if soemone can help in this one, i need a support group, really bad.Please help. I leave messages, everywhere but noone never answer, i need help , for a passive aggreassive personality dosorer, i really, wish, if soemone can help in this one, i need a support group, really bad.Please help.

]]> http://maymay.net/blog/2005/02/24/new-night-new-attitude/comment-page-1/#comment-2124 blondzila Fri, 25 Feb 2005 13:07:22 +0000 /?p=190#comment-2124 I think you have every right to protect your feelings. And I think there is a limit, a line in the sand that needs to be drawn. I think your behaviour was reasonable and will hopefully be the final straw she needs to see that you are not a doormat. If you keep opening the door, she'll keep buzzing up (both metaphorically and otherwise). I think you have every right to protect your feelings. And I think there is a limit, a line in the sand that needs to be drawn. I think your behaviour was reasonable and will hopefully be the final straw she needs to see that you are not a doormat. If you keep opening the door, she’ll keep buzzing up (both metaphorically and otherwise).

]]> http://maymay.net/blog/2005/02/24/new-night-new-attitude/comment-page-1/#comment-2005 Nick Thu, 24 Feb 2005 14:44:25 +0000 /?p=190#comment-2005 I cringed when I read the section "Pavlov Returns". I cringed when I read the section “Pavlov Returns”.

]]> http://maymay.net/blog/2005/02/24/new-night-new-attitude/comment-page-1/#comment-2004 Nick Thu, 24 Feb 2005 14:42:32 +0000 /?p=190#comment-2004 I have no doubt about the following: 1. Being hurt is not a result of a hurtful (even intentional) act by someone else. It is primarily a function of vulnerability. 2. Being CONCERNED about her feelings is something you may choose to let go of - but to CONSIDER her feelings makes more than just good manners, it makes sense, and ultimately guide you to make better choices. ------- Indeed, this entry is loaded, yet it still reads well. That' you knack. I have no doubt about the following:
1. Being hurt is not a result of a hurtful (even intentional) act by someone else. It is primarily a function of vulnerability.
2. Being CONCERNED about her feelings is something you may choose to let go of - but to CONSIDER her feelings makes more than just good manners, it makes sense, and ultimately guide you to make better choices.
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Indeed, this entry is loaded, yet it still reads well. That’ you knack.

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