- Struggling to #sleep well recently. Woke abruptly after #nightmare in which I got shot execution-style in street in front of @helio_girl. :( #
- @avatarkoo Uh…I'm pretty sure #slutshaming is the DEFINITION of people not having gotten the memo that we're the stewards of our own bodies. in reply to avatarkoo #
- American in #Haiti earthquake survives thanks to his #iPhone and SLR camera flash: http://bit.ly/4oeWdA /via @CarlosHernandez @therichbrooks #
- Am I being stupid? Why aren't display:block A elements full width in #IE7 in the navbar AP box: http://meitar.dev.wikia-inc.com #CSS #webdev #
- I nominate @sarahdopp for a Shorty Award in #innovation because of her consistent can-do attitude and incredible ideas! http://bit.ly/shorty #
- I nominate @susanmernit for a Shorty Award in #news because her talent make businesses & communities ala @OaklandLocal. http://bit.ly/shorty #
- Victory! Using a combo of white-space & z-index rules, @BladeBronson & I have vanquished #IE7! http://meitar.dev.wikia-inc.com Brekkie time. #
- #Lesson to learn from massive debugging session resulting in http://trac.wikia-code.com/changeset/17417/ is build it w/weakest tool you can. #
- @JohnBaku Are you working w/ @NCSF pro-bono or for-hire? I'd LOVE to help such orgs, but need income to pay bills. :( Either way, THANK YOU. in reply to JohnBaku #
- @JohnBaku I've recently tried using Apple #Keynote.app as a replacement for #OmniGraffle in #webdev #UI #design work. SA: http://ur1.ca/kbfx in reply to JohnBaku #
- ♺ @epastore: Why do Gov 2.0 folk keep saying that leaders need to give us more #democracy? #Freedom is made, not given. http://bit.ly/7eB5OS #
- Don't just rebuild, IMPROVE! ♺ @AlexSteffen charity for #Haiti admirable+sad: w/o major change they don't stand a chance, new hospital or no #
- Can you add to this page of benefits of masturbation? http://sexpositive.wikia.com/wiki/Masturbation Come on, I know you can. #WikiWednesday #
- @JohnBaku I see. Well, just to put it out there, I quit my day job & am seeking paid PT/perma-lance jobs I can believe in. Pay is secondary. in reply to JohnBaku #
- "Choice is the antidote to coercion & condescension." This #TEDTalk about #economy is VERY interesting+WIDELY applicable: http://ur1.ca/kbzz #
- @Idzie I appreciate when friends play devil's advocate. It gives me a chance to practice argument I know people who disagree w/me will make. in reply to Idzie #
- "We have the power to choose moment by moment who & how we want to be in the world." http://ur1.ca/kc1r Neuroanatomist's life-changing talk. #
- @nikolasco By "weak" I mean least-capable implementable mechanism. See W3C's Rule Of Least Power: http://ur1.ca/kc1t Weakness is a strength. in reply to nikolasco #
- "Man laid bare. Eager, willing submission is what I like. [He] finds a great sense of self-identity in being submissive." http://ur1.ca/kc45 #
Archive for January, 2010
My tweets on 2010-01-21
My tweets on 2010-01-20
- Ugh. Odd dreams kept me moving in and out of #sleep last night. I feel totally unrefreshed. Dear sleep: that was sucky. You fail. Do better. #
- @HiOhMegan I'm playing defense this time. :) We could certainly use your help! I'll get you in touch with @helio_girl & @pledgemistress. TY! in reply to HiOhMegan #
- Does #Firefox treat #CSS outline incorrectly? According to spec it shouldn't affect layout yet I need to add overflow:hidden for it? #webdev #
- I'll use this chance to try new stuff. ♺ @KinkForAll: Know what you want to talk abt at #KFAPVD? Get ideas from others': http://tr.im/kfapvd #
- Wow! There's a GORGEOUS #rainbow outside our office window right now. It's HUGE, arching over most of the downtown area of San Francisco. :) #
- This wonderfully positive post about my @SitePointDotCom article makes me happy: http://ur1.ca/k7zs My post http://ur1.ca/k7zy #HTML #webdev #
- Damn you, IE7. Like, lots. You may have won this battle with your INCESSANT guillotines (I think), but you will not win the war. #frustrated #
- And only 4 hours later, I'm finally done post-processing last Sunday's @KinkOnTap. Exporting now, should be published within the hour. Phew! #
- Among most insightful convos re #military I've had. ♺ @KinkOnTap 25: When the Gay Army Shows Up the Straight One http://KinkOnTap.com/?p=416 #
- Saw MLK's "I Have A Dream" vid: http://ur1.ca/k8ug Then saw "I can't believe we're still protesting this shit" pic: http://ur1.ca/k8uf #GLBT #
- Democratic loss in MA is evidence: bipartizan political system does not work, begets extremism. New SYSTEM, not merely candidate, is needed. #
- Read end of CNN's very smart report on #Massachusetts for context for my previous tweet: http://ur1.ca/k8z2 Bipartisanship begets extremism. #
My tweets on 2010-01-19
- Treat #youth diff for their diff needs but don't treat 'em unfairly by assuming you know more abt 'em than they do. http://ur1.ca/k4fp #BDSM #
- Interesting to note #HTML5 obsoletes <big> but retains <small> redefining it to basically mean "fine print." Pretty cool. #webdev #webdesign #
- Just dealt w/my first #community problem on #Wikia answers. http://ur1.ca/k53a Thank you to @sannse for the helpful advice! She's a godsend! #
- @seraglioletters Thanks for the kind words about my work for @KinkOnTap. At least, I'm pretty sure you meant me, and not @maymay. ;) Cheers! in reply to seraglioletters #
- #Rape BECAME criminal offense in #Haiti in 2005. Now #youth #women are even more vulnerable: http://tinyurl.com/yjcbn9b via @LivingSexuality #
- As a man, I'm appalled by twisted use of "!men's rights activist." WHY'RE MY FRIENDS USING THAT PHRASE? Call them "anti-equality activists." #
- Everyone, please, stop buying into linguistic travesties perpetrated by clever right-wing #marketers. It's NOT #pro-life, it's #anti-choice. #
- So-called "men's rights activists" are vehemently anti-feminist, anti-gender equality, claim white #men are oppressed http://Mens-Rights.net #
- REAL #men's #rights activists understand their privilege+use it to lift EVERYONE including women+minority races from legal+other oppression. #
- Post-processing @KinkOnTap audio and I need a quieter #mouse. Current one clicks loudly. Where can I get a silent, yet a comfy one? #lazyweb #
My tweets on 2010-01-18
- ♺ @KinkOnTap: Woot! Kink On Tap no. 1 result for iTunes Store search on "kink." Check it out at http://tr.im/kotitunes & pls rate+review us! #
- What if we taught "#women self-advancement as self-defense"? Some great points are here: http://is.gd/6sBDG /by @ClayShirky via @SarahFrantz #
- Today was all about @KinkOnTap for me—had tech issues but dealt ok. It helps to have @SarahFrantz & @James_Buchanan on—such great guests! :) #
- @DDog Are you asking for permission to make an audio-only version of your #KFADC presentation? You don't need it. Just make it and have fun! in reply to DDog #
- Noting that I missed a lot of news online today, and noting also that I was busy and it's okay and I'm going to see you all tomorrow anyway. #
- When I was 16, my girlfriend gave me naked photos so tonight's http://MaleSubmissionArt.com post tackles #youth #sexting: http://ur1.ca/k35i #
- @stokely That's okay w/me. :) Feel free to copy the text wherever you like. If you feel you need a link, perhaps use http://maybemaimed.com? in reply to stokely #
My tweets on 2010-01-17
- NYPD's reactionary approach to "Cop Convicted of Extorting Sex from 18yo Woman" means they won't let the buck stop there http://ff.im/-eoZXW #
- Surprising myself by writing beginning to an #essay on #strap-on #sex that I'm very proud of…and way more personal than I'm used to writing. #
- Excerpt of WIP: "Considering my inclinations for #BDSM, enjoying #strap-on #sex was also among the most difficult things for me to achieve." #
- @MollyRen @writingdirty Getting involved in the #BDSM #community is actually what taught me how to REMEMBER people's (often multiple) names. in reply to MollyRen #
- "Attorney Larry Walters: Some rational comments on #sexting" http://ur1.ca/k0au FANTASTIC #quotes highlighted in this blog post. #youth #sex #
- "Students are losing constitutional rights [&] their expectation of privacy on #school grounds" http://ur1.ca/k0au /cc @SchoolSurival #youth #
- Planning for @KinkForAll Washington DC 2 started thanks to @MollyRen's initiative! http://tr.im/kfadc2 Sign up for an early Summer event! :D #
- Think of it as an opportunity ;) ♺ @writingdirty My ability to socialize is hampered when I'm in a room of ppl who have "never heard of me." #
- It's not ready for publication, but my #strap-on #sex "essay" is done(ish) and clocked in at 1114 words. Nifty. Now for a change of scenery. #
- Got one of the nicest emails ever this morning. Subject was: "MaleSubmissionArt.com changed my mental landscape" #Praise: http://ur1.ca/k0em #
- If @DrOz thinks of women's genitals as traffic lights, does he think of his penis as a sports car? http://bit.ly/5yuWSt /by @livingsexuality #
- Found great commentary on proposed #GLBT #segregation in US military http://ur1.ca/k0ix while researching for @KinkOnTap tomorrow. SO crazy. #
- MUST SEE: http://ur1.ca/k0ld Teacher SHOWS "blurring lines btw school & life" results in empowered #youth /cc @bicyclingfish @SchoolSurvival #
My tweets on 2010-01-16
- #Satan to Pat Robertson: "Stop making me look bad. Keep blaming #God. That's working." http://bit.ly/7gcvaw /via @marshallk @DailyKos #Haiti #
- In case you forget REAL victims of greed: Fast-food standards for meat top those for #school lunches http://ur1.ca/jxf7 /via @SchoolSurvival #
- ♺ @Tre_ "Courage is not an absence of fear but rather a judgement that something else is more important." Noting fear, still moving forward. #
- Pentagon not scared of Al Qaeda but terrified of #GLBT people in own ranks so considers #segregation: http://bit.ly/55MWzG /via @SarahFrantz #
- Interesting piece by @kmunkittrick for anyone into #transhumanism. @sexgenderbody #Dolphins as Non-Human Persons http://ff.im/-dPqdL #Rights #
- Many m/f cases are, too. ♺ @MsLorelei Newsweek notices het male/male #sexual #harassment & realized it's always abt power. http://ow.ly/X0vn #
- "Curating" the new "crowd-sourcing"? ♺ @marshallk: new @RWW Podcast Parade http://bit.ly/65O4Gi probably weekly series of curated #podcasts. #
- I'm #inspired by this.♺ @rww #Entrepreneurs today should take note of what makes a great leader & it all starts w/"Why" http://bit.ly/8fXayB #
- Making it a point to catch up on some #email correspondence. Then I'll begin trying to figure out how to avoid lagging behind ever again. :( #
- Dr Jamison's personal experiences w/manic-depressive illness (#bipolar disorder) http://ur1.ca/jxxk This video almost made me cry—I have it. #
- @MollyRen 7? I've almost 20 now. You can't get rid of #email accounts—they multiply like #parasites & then they will totally consume you. ;) in reply to MollyRen #
- ♺ @sexgenderbody: "The idea that a #woman maintains her human #rights, even when she's pregnant, is a radical new idea." http://ff.im/-envu5 #
- ♺ @zeroday: Please RT – Saturday: #Volunteer #Tech's Needed To Participate in #Haiti @CrisisCamp in #DC, #SF, #NYC & #CO http://su.pr/1dZGTV #
- Interesting: #Youth credits #Digimon #fanfic for showing positive masculine submission role models http://ur1.ca/jy29 cc @writingdirty #BDSM #
- The Numbers Behind #Pornography: http://ur1.ca/jy5o "San Fernando Valley (in US) makes 90% of adult films" /via @MsLorelei #statistics #porn #
- Destigmatization Killing the #Porn Industry? Good Riddance http://ur1.ca/jy6h Good post touches on rise in amateur porn. /by @talkingfigleaf #
My tweets on 2010-01-15
- Frightening! This woman's gang-rapists were acquitted cuz she voiced a sexual #fantasy: http://icio.us/zipw14 #feminism /via @kristina_lloyd #
- @SarahFrantz Noted on blog post. It's disappointing that the photo isn't 100% real, but I don't think it changes the point I was making any. in reply to SarahFrantz #
- #KFAPVD start moved to 10AM. Be at Brown University on Feb 6th & help spread the word! Sign up for free: http://tr.im/kfapvd via @KinkForAll #
- Struggling with trying to get #MediaWiki to recognize #HTML5 input. Screw you, hardcoded #sanitization routines. :( This is way too complex. #
- Y'know what. Screw #MediaWiki & its #wiki text. Like @uberfuzzy said: just put the WHOLE thing in <html>. You want an H3? Use an H3. #webdev #
- @MissCalico A #wiki is an AMAZING tool for collaboration. But engineers need to learn from people like you who are new. PLEASE keep talking. in reply to misscalico #
- A reminder, some kind folks nominated me for a Shorty Award: http://ShortyAwards.com/maymaym Will you tell me why you like my posts if y'do? #
- Although I still feel largely unsure about #HTML5, I do rly enjoy not having to comment as many closing DIVs to make the pair clear. #webdev #
- @SquidDLane Thx; this isn't publicly-editable so risk of XSS is less. Ultimately I don't need $wgRawHtml but it makes prototyping easier. :) in reply to SquidDLane #
- "Change your attitude on elders & #sex now [you'll have more] fun when you’re older." http://cli.gs/ZbuM8 —@charlieglickman ♺ @debaucheddiva #
- Remember: most of the time, anyone who thinks something that's easy for them is beyond others isn't actually as good as they think they are. #
- I just submitted my #scholarship #application for #LLC XIV this spring: http://ur1.ca/junb Today's the FINAL DAY before submission deadline! #
- Totally rushing to submit my presentation proposal for #LLC XIV now. Man, I gotta stop doing all of this stuff last-minute. #procrastination #
- Okay, I THINK I made it in just under the wire for #LLC's submission deadlines. And I even managed to get more @KinkOnTap stuff done. Go me. #
- I so LOVE how much discussion the latest post by @MaleSubmission is generating over on @InformedConsent: http://vb.ly/1yzr http://vb.ly/1yzs #
- "[T]easing out #gender differences" in #Google suggest: http://ur1.ca/jvtf Not so different as you might've guessed. /via @sannse #KinkOnTap #
My tweets on 2010-01-14
- Whoa. Didn't realize it was so huge. ♺ @RAGreeneCNN BRK: *Hundreds of thousands* could be dead in Haiti #earthquake, PM tells CNN. Dear God. #
- Do you listen to @KinkOnTap? Please tell the world what you think of the #podcast by writing a review on #iTunes http://tr.im/kotitunes Thx! #
- "The #earthquake's power matched that of several nuclear bombs." ♺ @cnnbrk: #Haiti to UN: "more than 100,000 are dead." http://bit.ly/82whW7 #
- MUST READ: http://ur1.ca/jp5b Google reconsiders biz in China, suspects govt of infiltrating accts of human rights activists. /via @WeldPond #
- Teacher: "policy of #abstinence only [#sex] #education ruined Maria's life."♺ @CarnalNation The Price of Sexual Silence http://bit.ly/7OSF0Z #
- BEFORE you donate to #Haiti: ♺ @viviane212 Read fine print on making a #mobile donation: http://mgive.com/Partners.aspx to avoid daily txts! #
- Think before you give to #Haiti: ♺ @solidadrocks: What to look for from an org: http://ur1.ca/jr5h Note low overhead+life-saving return on $ #
- @support #StatusNet I've been having trouble w/the #Twitter bridge all morning. Re-connected my account, but still doesn't cross-post. Help? #
- @rbonifaz Good to know! Thank you for the update re the #Twitter bridge delay on Identi.ca. :) http://is.gd/6d2C3 You guys rock. Keep it up. #
- Pretty happy w/visual grouping we've achieved in this #CSS: http://ur1.ca/jrha Changing many size/color needs only 1 edit. More after lunch. #
- We mentioned this on @KinkOnTap: http://vb.ly/1yww ♺ @Broadsnark: 4yo Boy Suspended from #School cuz His Hair Is Too Long http://j.mp/5Pbvs6 #
- Wired news: http://ur1.ca/jrjr #KinkOnTap ♺ @californiabeat BRK: Supreme Court blocks cameras from #Prop8 !GLBT #Marriage trial indefinitely #
- I need to learn about this: ♺ @solidadrocks If Gov't Won't Break Up Giant #Banks, Let's Do It Ourselves http://bit.ly/6oZNFn /via @buzzflash #
- 2 nuanced takes on #Prop8 !GLBT #marriage "camera issue" @Zackford: http://is.gd/6dAda @jeffkoertzen: http://ur1.ca/jrl8 I duck out for now. #
- Banning stuff is a shitty state of mind ♺ @KinkOnTap States banning !GLBT marriage have higher straight #divorce rates http://icio.us/gnydqu #
- Good historical perspective on silliness of sex-negative views: "Making out is its own reward" http://ow.ly/WftK cc @helio_girl ♺ @MsLorelei #
- Have spent the last several hours churning out infrastructure improvements for @KinkOnTap. Next I need to write up a blog post about it all. #
- Worked myself into exhaustion by preparing several #webdev blog posts (still drafts). This is good; I need to return to #tech #writing more. #
My tweets on 2010-01-13
- I love how incredibly scrutinous #comments on my newest @SitePointDotCom post about #semantic #HTML markup are: http://bit.ly/5Yvonf #webdev #
- There's not only fun posts, but events info in this one! ♺ @KinkOnTap: Episode 24 http://KinkOnTap.com/?p=316 "You'd Be Amazed What Can Fit" #
- Already doing this in #SF, #NYC ♺ @KinkOnTap #DC police undermine public #health, arrest ppl carrying 3 condoms w/them http://icio.us/mv0ery #
- After a morning full of #webdev geekery with @BladeBronson ("are those ads RLY part of the footer, or their own section?"), it's LUNCH time. #
- ♺ @KinkForAll: Long-time participant coming to #KFAPVD? Spread the cheer by bringing friends & helping THEM give a talk! http://tr.im/kfapvd #
- Hey, people in #SF! Don't forget @DeviantsOnline TONIGHT at 6PM http://DeviantsOnline.com/?p=36 @SarahDopp will make your life more awesome! #
- Agreed! ♺ @aagblog YES @smashingmag you have readers who work in adult industry & appreciate design inspiration—no nudity required! #smadult #
- #ImTiredOf ghettoizing+sensationalizing adult industry. They're famous for #tech innovation—stop treating them like 2nd class pros! #smadult #
- Fantastic real-world explanation of why @Facebook's stance on #Internet #privacy is a TOTAL FUCKING FARCE http://bit.ly/7O7ja7 by @marshallk #
- For #SF afternoon artists, #sex nerds & other rebels: come to http://DeviantsOnline.com/?p=36 at 6PM to talk tweets, etc. w/me & @SarahDopp! #
- Glad to have turned a potentially rough day into a productive one—wrote some significant code: http://ur1.ca/jpbm Now on to @DeviantsOnline! #
- I'm just glad it was useful! :) ♺ @sarahdopp: So thrilled about how useful the @DeviantsOnline workshop just was. WOW. Thank you, @maymaym!! #
- I'm totally #exhausted. Like, so tired I'm having trouble putting complete sentences together. Was gonna write but I need sleep. Later, all. #
My tweets on 2010-01-12
- This post by @ThumperMN is a poignant must-read for #submissive men into #BDSM: http://ur1.ca/jlks My take on it is here: http://ur1.ca/jlkv #
- I'm already classified that way. ♺ @KinkOnTap "Experts" w/antiquated sex views seek to classify more ppl mentally ill: http://icio.us/es2k2l #
- @MollyRen I think the #DSM-IV defines #masochism as a sexual paraphilia. Not sure about #sexual submission. I doubt they even grok the diff. in reply to MollyRen #
- @MollyRen From years of experience dealing with #bipolar disorder the ONLY difference is that I got untimed tests at school. Don't worry. ;) in reply to MollyRen #
- @Gnosisseeker Agreed. We've contacted some professionals for @KinkOnTap. Suggest more to us! http://tr.im/kotguests Always looking for folk! in reply to Gnosisseeker #
- #NYC's student-run #BDSM #education group, @ConversioVirium is seeking presenters & volunteers for Spring 2010: http://ur1.ca/jm0m Speak up! #
- @writingdirty @stacycat Demo-focused event likely need different rules than @KinkForAll (purposely) set forth. Let there be other events! :D in reply to writingdirty #
- What do you think of this? ♺ @sarahdopp "Small Collaborative #WebDev Teams: A Model" (schemed by me & @maymaym) http://doppjuice.com/?p=1316 #
- Noticing how horrendously my #productivity plummets when I start my day off on the wrong foot (or too early in the day). Am struggling here. #
- Up late trying to power through getting @KinkOnTap published. Tomorrow I'm at @sarahdopp's @DeviantsOnline, so I want all my t's crossed. :) #
- I sincerely hope I'm not killing myself by doing this much #work tonight. Someone remind me that hard work pays off. Or, hell, that it pays! #
