- @MollyRen It's not about exposure @FetLife, but rather about what you're missing by being ONLY there. See: http://vb.ly/24vx /cc @SaraEileen in reply to MollyRen #
- @MollyRen See examples of sites KinkForAll events were listed at on event pages: http://tr.im/kfaevents Facebook, Upcoming.org, DCPages.com. in reply to MollyRen #
- Uncertainty makes my days start slowly. ♺ @helio_girl New blog post http://bit.ly/92vjsJ "He Belonged to Me: Loss, Optimism, and KinkForAll" #
- Rediscovering interconnectedness btw #sysadmin & #webdev @NewAmericaMedia. Reminds me of fighting siblings sometimes. :) Gotta #communicate #
- The @WordPressDotCom outage is validation for people who insist on handling their own data. :) My self-hosted @WordPress blogs are still up. #
- @helio_girl @Adisson89 Many see frustration from wanting-and-not-getting as anger or entitlement when in fact it's innate sense of equality. in reply to helio_girl #
- @DDog Interesting. Maybe share my video with class & see what they think of it to clarify whether they included children consciously or not. in reply to DDog #
- Top thing I wish more #sysadmin folk knew: http://pathname.com/fhs The #FHS is one of those little things that makes life so much better. :P #
- @jtimberman Why do many #sysadmin choose to ignore #FHS That strikes me as willful ignorance. I've found such #standards to be VERY useful. in reply to jtimberman #
- I want to see Scot's #KFAPVD talk "!Sex and Fraternity Life" get more plays. http://vimeo.com/9544347 It was VERY good & insightful. Pls RT. #
- IWHC.org tech issues still preventing @helio_girl & I from getting our Young Visionaries contest proposal in. Emailed, but waiting on reply. #
- I find it funny that people often use the phrase "#kink and #BDSM quot; whether or not they believe the two words are identical. They are not. ;) #
- @seraglioletters Yes. #BDSM is narrow subset of #kink SA: http://ur1.ca/mqxp & http://ur1.ca/mqxq Clearly it was not challenging to you. :) in reply to seraglioletters #
- O! Didn't realize you're he of "Sex & Frat Life" http://vimeo.com/9544347 vid!♺ @skottyd: @maymaym You should connect it to my twitter acct! #
- In #Yahoo #Pipes, can I act on 1 pipe item based on content/result of other item? I'm trying to do basic if/then/else branch+merge. #lazyweb #
- @siniful You may be surprised how many thoughtlessly conflate #BDSM & #kink Often same who think @KinkForAll means BDSMForAll. It does NOT. in reply to siniful #
- Looking over awesome updates to @KinkForAll Unorganizer's #Guide at http://wiki.kinkforall.org/OrganizeALocalKinkForAll by @helio_girl. Thx! #
- Were you a time keeper at a KinkForAll event? Share what worked & what didn't at the @KinkForAll #guide to #time keeping: http://ur1.ca/mr3n #
- Very grateful to all the photographers at prior @KinkForAll events. I've been adding pictures to the various #wiki pages: http://ur1.ca/mr6r #
- #Amen to so very much of this. ♺ @PassionAndSoul: @Mollena's kick ass rant about #bigotry against #vanilla #sex & more: http://bit.ly/a8zQeH #
- Starting to get near-daily emails inquiring about selling adspace on my blogs, notably maybemaimed.com & MaleSubmissionArt.com. Am refusing. #
- @angelixd A few reasons I'm refusing #ads on my #blogs Among them: I don't have time to review sellers & I won't advertise stuff I dislike. in reply to angelixd #
- Tried hard to avoid overwrought #emotion in http://MaleSubmissionArt.com posts. I might've failed tonight. http://vb.ly/24wu That's okay. :) #
- Huh. #SNL #039;s recent parody of Fox News's #DADT coverage is frighteningly accurate. http://tinyurl.com/yby3rn7 Especially Glenn Beck's idiocy. #
Archive for February, 2010
My tweets on 2010-02-19
My tweets on 2010-02-18
- @avatarkoo I don't have any stats code on MaleSubmissionArt.com, so I assume the Quantcast graph shows only hits to the website directly. :) in reply to avatarkoo #
- Momlogic.com "My 4-Year-Old Is NOT a #Sexual Predator" http://tinyurl.com/y8ju8on Good common sense. /via @AllieCoquelicot #youth #parenting #
- "The 'Zero Tolerance' Approach to Fighting in #Schools quot; leads to self-defense considered unlawful: http://bit.ly/bVHkhj /via @SchoolSurvival #
- Thx to coincidence of shared name I heard of TimeToKnow, radical & intriguing approach to #education http://ur1.ca/lepd /cc @SchoolSurvival #
- THIS is how isms reinforce each other! "'Don’t Ask Don’t Tell' Disproportionately Affecting Black Women" http://j.mp/93Eks0 /via @Broadsnark #
- Fascinating: http://bit.ly/aS3BXr As citizen #journalism comes of age, I'm seeing big opportunities in niche-aggregation. /cc @teaguehopkins #
- "I got laid off & I started doing my life's work." http://ow.ly/13vQw Welcome to new world: http://vb.ly/20o5 /via & featuring @IdentityTBD #
- @Adisson89 Oh boo! I'm going to miss you. :( Also you are SUCH a sweetheart for renumbering sign-ups on #KFAPVD page. http://tr.im/kfapvd :) in reply to Adisson89 #
- Bah! Trying to come up w/a cohesive narrative for possible #KFAPVD piece but it's proving difficult. I'm not sure how to get the right flow. #
- Setting up #KFAPVD #039;s Live page: http://tr.im/kfapvdlive Hopefully, we'll have a live video stream of at least 1 room for people to watch. :D #
- @MollyRen Résumé #writing is crock. I think of it like MARKETING COPY. A #r ©sumé is an #advertisement to get you an interview, nothing more. in reply to MollyRen #
- @jezzbel "How Kinksters Can Save the Environment"? Awesome! Bit out of left field but that's how "gender+climate change" seemed 1st, too. :) in reply to Jezzbel #
- @MollyRen IIRC, I really liked this #r ©sumé #writing guide when I first saw it: http://bit.ly/brWUz6 Basically, cut out fluff & be specific. in reply to MollyRen #
- Is it appropriate to have an admirer-crush on an asexual guy when that guy's @davidgljay? http://vb.ly/20oo His work's seriously impressive. #
- Good. I finally found my narrative for my #KFAPVD presentation & now I have about 1500 words written. I'm getting there slowly but steadily. #
- Whoa. Lots of edits in Bill O'Reilly's interview w/Jon Stewart http://ur1.ca/lfu6 What's the matter O'Reilly? Can't handle a live broadcast? #
- o_O Where to start?! ♺ @professornoir Wondering how long until @maymaym comments on http://is.gd/7FS3B (9yo #girls in ad for kids' lingerie) #
- @KellyShibari Not so random. Recent study showed how lowest paid #jobs in Western society have the highest social #value http://ur1.ca/lg17 in reply to KellyShibari #
- @KellyShibari Was it really different century ago, or just measured differently? Either way, I do actually have #ideas for how to fix it. :) in reply to KellyShibari #
My tweets on 2010-02-03
- @seraglioletters Totally agree! Curious requires a forward-thinking mindset, something I'm trying to develop in myself. How would you start? in reply to seraglioletters #
- @seraglioletters Like @SITPS forum? Not yet—but it crossed my mind. We must grow sustainably…for now there are blog comments. cc @helio_girl in reply to seraglioletters #
- ♺ @KinkOnTap: 15yo conceives child after performing #fellatio, getting stabbed in abdomen by ex. WHOA! http://icio.us/0ni2ty HT @SarahSloane #
- For the Love of Love: http://ur1.ca/lbyu Great piece urging #GLBT orgs to support #BDSM, #intersex & others. Cites @ConversioVirium lots! :D #
- Congrats to @HiOhMegan for opening @TheCSPH! http://ur1.ca/lc06 Can't wait to say this in person at #KFAPVD on Saturday! http://tr.im/kfapvd #
- Still finding it difficult to transition out of day job, into self-directed work modes. Struggling thru post-processing @KinkOnTap audio. :\ #
- Quantcast estimates MaleSubmissionArt.com gets 7k+ unique/mo: http://twitpic.com/11569v Interesting comparing the 1yr graph w/my life focus. #
My tweets on 2010-02-02
- ♺ @KinkForAll: Coming to #KFAPVD? There's still time to sign up at http://tr.im/kfapvd to get free #Wi-Fi all day courtesy @BrownUniversity! #
- Have more fun in #webdev by using these tools: ♺ @SitePointDotCom 10 Big Time-Saving Tools for Web Designers http://bit.ly/d9pacp #webdesign #
- Excellent advice.♺ @iheni #Mobile browsing's a good litmus test of how not to design for web. Eventually it'll influence desktop #webdesign. #
- Some #optimism: I like the fact that #BestFeelingEver is trending higher than #WorstFeelingEver on Twitter right now. Never let that change. #
- Just got very unpleasant wakeup call that tells me I really need to revamp my #personal web #site. Very good to see that such things matter. #
- Struggling to get into my new routine. Transition is so unreasonably hard for me. Do you have any tips for dealing with serious life change? #
- Dear #lazyweb: I'm promoting free #sexuality #conference called @KinkForAll Providence. Who in #media or blogging should I write to? #KFAPVD #
- My ticket to #SMWSF panel 2/4 refunded cuz I'm not "directly responsible for online #community mgmt." Misunderstanding or sex ghettoization? #
- @furrygirl It sounds like independent #porn industry has a need for a more distributed #billing system. In fact, I think many industries do. in reply to furrygirl #
- @edythemighty Awesome advice, thank you! Contacted @CarnalNation via their online contact form about #KFAPVD. Any more ideas for media buzz? #
- Looking for examples where college-aged & younger #youth successfully fought for stuff they want esp #sex #education. Know any? (For a talk) #
- Great egs: Miranda Elliot changed Chicago public school sex ed: http://ur1.ca/l9bq Mel Rose Dingal victorious at APCRSHR: http://ur1.ca/l9bs #
- @00Syd You just reminded me of @echomikeromeo's success @Princeton at getting #gender-neutral #housing enacted there! http://vb.ly/20bi Thx! in reply to 00Syd #
- ♺ @maxine: Provide a diverse work env that doesn't require #women to be 1 of the boys to #succeed & they will. http://bit.ly/aV2sB0 Amazing! #
- @00Syd Really? That's interesting. If you have any contact info for anyone involved in that send them my way, please. Would love learn more. in reply to 00Syd #
- @James_Buchanan Thanks! For general blog stuff, I'm hoping ppl will be willing to re-post #KFAPVD text flyer from here: http://bit.ly/d6wbdl in reply to James_Buchanan #
- Yay! Heard back from #SMWSF panel organizers: the clarification I provided helped. Unsurprisingly, I need to learn how to speak Corporatese. #
- @avatarkoo @wilhelminawang FYI: Using #CV is way more ambiguous than #Conversio because the former is also an acronym for many other things. in reply to avatarkoo #
- Wow. Just got shocked by being shown pics from my time in Australia with @SaraEileen. They're still painful to look at. That's…good to know. #
- "I don't believe in #compromise. Compromise is for lazy people who settle.
I believe ONLY in win-win. Anything else is a #wrong answer." -Me #
My tweets on 2010-02-01
- @SarahFrantz @avatarkoo @Saynine Idea that men, regardless of D/s desire, don't need or want #aftercare is prevalent & very dangerous. #BDSM in reply to SarahFrantz #
- ♺ @sexgenderbody KinkForAll Providence: Free #sexuality #conference where everyone is invited to attend & speak! http://ff.im/-f8Q8i #KFAPVD #
- @saynine Yes, I did. I liked it save for quote by asshat dominant woman who devalues men's aftercare. You could've pushed back on that more. in reply to saynine #
- @Mollena I'd posit people who go to #aftercare classes are less likely to imbue it w/their own #gendered #assumptions in the first place. ;) in reply to Mollena #
- @Mollena There's a disconnect btw "BDSM #communities" & "communities of people who engage in #BDSM." I'm much more interested in the latter. in reply to Mollena #
- ♺ @KinkForAll #Press #Release: Grass-roots public sexuality education conference to be hosted by @BrownUniversity http://bit.ly/bzHKIb Feb 6 #
- @avatarkoo Lack of #aftercare for ANY1 who wants it isn't good. What's "dangerous" is the cultural implications that men haven't such wants. in reply to avatarkoo #
- We're broadcasting for @KinkOnTap! This should be a fun show, since we've got tons of stuff. Join us at http://Live.KinkOnTap.com right now. #
- What a fun @KinkOnTap! @maureengh impresses me every time she's on. Big thanks to her and also to @diabola for making this so fun this time! #
- @Pavo734 Hey, thanks for tuning into @KinkOnTap earlier and hanging out w/ us! Thanks also for your email! I want to spotlight it next week! in reply to pavo734 #
- Some words on how and why both wanting and providing #aftercare is an expression of power: http://malesubmissionart.com/post/364865244 #BDSM #
