- "Maymay & 'Free Culture' #Community Building" http://ur1.ca/0tptt Ppl can self-organize for mutual benefit even w/o sharing the same values. #
- This book's synopsis http://ur1.ca/0tq0u is a great description damning Donna M. Hughes/Gail Dines/Melissa Farley's preposterous "research." #
- @aagblog @Elodie_T @britisshameless @dangerouslilly #Steampunk #sex #toys You mean like @vniow's steampunk vibrator: http://ur1.ca/0tq2p :) in reply to aagblog #
- "Accreditation isn't the solution, it's the problem," @ThisIsSethsBlog says: http://bit.ly/cLHuiE True in ALL #education Even you, #AASECT #
- Cool #linguistics #women & #social #media: http://ur1.ca/0tqmi "language changes often signify underlying social change" /via @cindygallop1 #
- Yup. Economics, too: http://ur1.ca/021ip ♺ @Ropecast Based on what I see at #unconferences …more is learned from exploration than dictation. #
- Crude, but by far the best way to read @GailDines' work. ♺ @iamcuriousblue: @markkernes of @BehindAVN fisks Dines: http://vb.ly/add4 #noporn #
- Thx. :) ♺ @severebass BTW, if you're a #sex positive person who believes in tha #freedom of #speech follow @maymaym he has tha best #links #
- #Sex #work prohibitionists & anti #sextrafficking activists: do you even care about trafficking victims? http://bit.ly/aeqYKB /via @Ropecast #
- "Idea #sex quot; is why I say "people keep saying the world is getting worse, but it is in fact getting better." http://ur1.ca/0puse :D #TEDTalks #
- "Prosperity: the saving of time in satisfying your needs." http://ur1.ca/0puse "Self-sufficiency: we call that poverty these days." #AMAZING #
- Traditional "#education dislocates many people from their natural talents." http://ur1.ca/03q1i Followup to http://ur1.ca/5re2 /cc @Ropecast #
- A superior #morality "Human #communities depend upon a #diversity of talent, not a singular conception." http://ur1.ca/03q1i No exceptions. #
- Holy shit. http://MaleSubmissionArt.com is "the only #porn I look at now" http://ur1.ca/0ts0q says? Damn. I better get back onto posting. :) #
- ♺ @iamcuriousblue: GGW #law suit shows need for better intellectual property rights w/r/t images of one's body: http://vb.ly/ggw1 #KinkOnTap #
- #Transgender widow sued by her in-laws in #Texas to invalidate their "same-sex" #marriage block life insurance benefit http://ur1.ca/0tsb4 #
- Path to #success is ALWAYS to be useful for someone. A goal: "How can I be useful for friends?" A danger: "How can I be useful for enemies?" #
Archive for July, 2010
My tweets on 2010-07-24
My tweets on 2010-07-22
- What a lovely sentiment! ♺ @mungojelly_more: I try to follow all different kinds of folk. Thx for being different from each other, everyone! #
- "only way [#immigrant #GLBT couples] can stay together is if they're married," but same-sex #marriage isn't federal law: http://ur1.ca/0t5pq #
- Bit by #Apple #Mail.app & #Google #GMail "bandwidth limit exceeded" #bug Removing "Recovered Messages" & IMAP-[account]/.OfflineCache dirs. #
- You DO NOT have a right to be unoffended when watching TV or listening to radio: http://bit.ly/bQdr9z If #obscenity offends you, tough shit. #
My tweets on 2010-07-20
- ♺ @katebornstein: "#ProLife" folks say #life begins at conception. That means they MUST also believe life has no #gender Right? #tlot #tcot #
- @estellevw Screw masturbation. By that logic anti-choice activists also shouldn't menstruate. Think of all the unfertilized eggs. For shame! in reply to estellevw #
My tweets on 2010-07-19
- Hanging out on the radio w/@helio_girl. :) Listen to us live right now at http://FCCFreeRadio.com. Talking lots about @KinkOnTap, of course. #
My tweets on 2010-07-18
- Glad that @helio_girl is at #owc2 with me. Thx to @sarahdopp for the ride, @musingvirtual for organizing us! :) @sanbeiji, find me & say hi! #
- #OWC2 starts with @mollydotcom polling audience by asking for some personal stories. Interesting tack—sometimes tough to get people talking. #
- You don't have to "opt-in to brakes" when you buy a car @mollydotcom says at #OWC2 drawing analogy to #WebStandards open web+data formats. #
- "IE is absolutely committed to HTML5," @mollydotcom says at #OWC2 "There's no browser not working on what they think is #HTML5 " ;) #webdev #
- "The things we argue for—open web, #WebStandards €”they shouldn't be an argument cuz [we were always meant to have them]." -@mollydotcom #OWC2 #
- @helio_girl #WebStandards raise your quality of technical life; they provide some base measure of #interoperability Like light bulbs. #OWC2 in reply to helio_girl #
- Whenever we talk #quality I think we need to define #audience #WebStandards try to impose some of qualities for an UNKNOWN audience. #OWC2 #
- "If you're working on the Web, don't kid yourself: you're part of evolution. You're part of a revolution." -@mollydotcom #WebStandards #OWC2 #
- @musingvirtual Yes that's exaclty my point. #Quality is all about perception—minimum, maximum, whatev. It's a similar conversation to #a11y in reply to musingvirtual #
- @musingvirtual I think so, yes. I think most people don't define #quality hence #a11y #security etc don't meet "minimum standards." #owc2 in reply to musingvirtual #
- TOTALLY. #Tech = life. :) ♺ @helio_girl: "Backward Compatible"-accept what came before. …draw connections to the world beyond the Web. #owc2 #
- Sorry to miss @benadida at #OWC2 but big congrats to you & your family, Sir! :) Instead, listening to @johnallsopp talking abt an open web. #
- THIS is why #antiporn #noporn fear-mongers hate #transparency USE IT TO FIGHT THEM. ♺@viviane212 Transparency is neutral—it takes no sides. #
- "App stores are—seriously—a form of #slavery " @johnallsopp says at #OWC2 Harsh words. Hard for me to argue with that, tho. #Open #Internet #
- At #OWC2 @johnallsopp is demoing http://mugtug.com/darkroom as an example of a #Web app to dispel myth that Web apps aren't "slick & sexy." #
- Fuck yeah SVG FTW BBQ! ♺ @helio_girl: Next to me @maymaym quietly cheers when #SVG comes up in @johnallsopp's talk. Yes dear. We know. #owc2 #
- Dear @estellevw: I'm sorry to be interrupting your #CSS talk but I'm sure you're doing great! Y'all should visit http://Standardista.com. ;) #
- Oh, nice. #W3C #Geo #API "lets you ask how accurate [the current position] is." Where's that function? Big opportunity for better #UX #OWC2 #
- Ah! #W3C #Geo #API has position.coords.accuracy member variable. Not sure what its value means, yet…but, good to know. Thx @chaals. :) #OWC2 #
- @helio_girl It's basic variable handling, like a "light bulb." It's a "key" that refers to a specific "value." Variables are language. #OWC2 in reply to helio_girl #
- Hearing @stubbornella talk at #OWC2 is very cool. Her work was the foundation for the #CSS optimization writing I did in http://tr.im/advcss #
- "When we get the #architecture right, things get really tiny. …a minor change of thinking" has a HUGE impact @stubbornella says at #OWC2 :) #
- "If your architecture is wrong, it WILL fail. You can put a lot of effort into making it fail slower, but…." Applicable to EVERYTHING. #OWC2 #
- "You have to be willing to look at [your #webdesign like repeating patterns," @stubbornella says. Gotta find the correct granularity. #OWC2 #
- Don't confuse "truly stale" #CSS code (rules never used, ever) w/"kind of stale" (rules activated on user actions). #webdev #webdesign #OWC2 #
- Location-dependant #CSS (`.foo h2` / `.bar h2`) is bad for reusability. Declare self-contained rules based on element purpose instead. #OWC2 #
- To improve #reusability avoid using #CSS to style IDs. Those should be used for #JavaScript while classes should be used for styles. #OWC2 #
- "It's important to define what you know" @stubbornella says at #OWC2 "so you can begin to reuse it." Also world beyond web, @helio_girl? :) #
- It's very VERY nice to hear @stubbornella consistently give #attributions to collaborators who did good work during her #presentation #OWC2 #
- @stubbornella Location dependant styles hamper reusability! :) CSS Summit ahoy? :) #
- @helio_girl If I'm right…. We'll see if @stubbornella accepts my answer about #CSS location-dependance and reusability. :) G'luck all. #OWC2 in reply to helio_girl #
- Missed start of A11y 101 in favor of #geeking out over the future of #CSS ala http://ur1.ca/0pkka http://ur1.ca/0pkkd w/@stubbornella. #OWC2 #
- @musingvirtual @jennison Sorry, I'm not sure if that's something I can do at the moment. :( Anyone at #OWC2 able+willing to set up a stream? in reply to musingvirtual #
- @stubbornella Yay! Thx for the chance! =) I saw you try to email me but sadly I don't seem to have an email from you. (And I can't DM you…?) in reply to stubbornella #
- Providing morale support for @sanbeiji from the back of the room. :) He's from the good government. Our #CSS book: http://tr.im/advcss #OWC2 #
- #Webdevs aren't a homogenous bunch. @sanbeiji's live demo extending blog template shows how 90% of "web designers" treat "developing." #OWC2 #
- Spontaneous #vim user #bof in the back of @sanbeiji's #OWC2 presentation when he asked about #editors Lots of people like the GUIs. Not us! #
- FTR: "They did it wrong" is smart-ass answer. Still, #SVG fonts used in #CSS as shown by @sanbeiji really is harder than it should be. #OWC2 #
- I THINK non-smart-ass-answer re #SVG fonts is referencing 'em in #CSS requires you to access it as XML element. Right me if I'm wrong! #OWC2 #
- More on #SVG web #fonts (especially in Mobile Safari): http://ur1.ca/0pld0 http://ur1.ca/0pld4 http://ur1.ca/0pld6 http://ur1.ca/0pld9 #OWC2 #
- #Tech overlap: certain #WAI ARIA roles, states & properties duplicate #HTML5 Eg., aria-required="true" & required="required". #webdev #OWC2 #
- Yup—it's like XML. ♺@nikolasco: @maymaym Eg. url("coolfont.svg#somefont") where coolfont.svg has <font id="somefont"> #SVG #fonts #CSS #OWC2 #
- O hai new followers. Note my updates are not safe for work (depending on what you do for work). I talk sex, politics, activism, AND tech. ;) #
My tweets on 2010-07-17
- It is a fucking DISGRACE TO AMERICA that #pornographers are more credible than FBI agents, federal prosecutors & judges: http://ur1.ca/0p7ow #
- Yay! #Stagliano charges dismissed! To sexual freedom advocates: WE ARE NOT SAFE until #obscenity insanity is laughable. /via @RichardAbowitz #
- Antiporn activists' wet dream soured as obscenity charges against John "Buttman" Stagliano dismissed http://3.ly/HHEp via @KinkOnTap #noporn #
- @sweet_carolanne Bluntly: get real & don't fool yourself. Your tentacle femmslash is on the chopping block. We NEED your voice—pls speak UP. in reply to sweet_carolanne #
- If you think #Stagliano trial is a "victory" for freedom, THINK AGAIN: case was dismissed on procedural ground. You & I are NOT freer today. #
- @sweet_carolanne No single site—it's ALL sites ALL the time. Speak up wherever+whenever you can. Write posts+leave comments http://3.ly/HHEp in reply to sweet_carolanne #
- @JimNorton @blix206 @MissAuroraSnow @dangerrob @Misstabstevens @RichardAbowitz Victory for Stagliano, NOT for our freedom: http://vb.ly/2bna in reply to JimNorton #
- Dear #sexuality #educators, professionals & safer #sex experts: seems #Wikipedia needs your #help http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Safer_sex :) #
- Good start! ♺ @HiOhMegan: @TheCSPH released it's first YouTube #video today. http://ow.ly/2cDpZ "What Does #Sexual #Empowerment Mean to Me?" #
My tweets on 2010-07-16
- 2weeks of "other side" research leaves me short-tempered. How do you purge yourself of such bile? They're worse than roaches. /cc @HiOhMegan #
- @makomk I feel you're reading a LOT into @enagoski's post. I also believe rape fantasies can be enacted w/o "violence." It's happened to me. in reply to makomk #
- @makomk That's a specious interpretation of sex, and especially of #BDSM play. Happy to discuss the issue elsewhere. SA: http://ur1.ca/0ov1u in reply to makomk #
- Featuring @DrMartyKlein @GailDines @ptrueman. ♺ @HiOhMegan: MUST SEE protecting sexual free speech: http://ur1.ca/0ouvv /cc #proporn #noporn #
- "groups like @EIETweets & @FRCBlog lie, cheat & steal to oppose #porn €¦" http://bit.ly/ahQ8l7 They also astroturf Wikipedia: http://3.ly/B2Xu #
- @MsMagazine Isn't there any way you can whitelist my comments? I keep getting "awaiting moderation" almost certainly due to number of links. #
- @jeffjarvis Wait, are you saying 'Fresh Air' SHOULD be dropped? That's utterly silly. It's no more explicit than, say, http://KinkOnTap.com. in reply to jeffjarvis #
- Mississippi @NPR affiliate drops nationally-syndicated radio show for jokes about #sex with one's shirt on: http://3.ly/SDfK /via @KinkOnTap #
My tweets on 2010-07-15
- "With every tech advance we see greater democratization of #culture generally, but certainly sexually explicit expression." http://3.ly/7vuv #
- ♺ @KinkOnTap: French approve burqa ban citing "freedom against [humiliation]." Like humiliation of being told how to dress? http://3.ly/7Rsm #
- ♺ @only_imagined: Sorry if this is #BDSM 102 Q. What's alternative to a "reaction top"? Can't grok @SaraEileen's original post. /cc @maymaym #
- @echomikeromeo Interesting! Remember to tweet links w/the #KinkOnTap hashtag to automatically push them to our links #feed http://3.ly/NS35 in reply to echomikeromeo #
- You know you're the #new #media when people start misquoting you all over. This is going to get interesting—fast. /cc @KinkOnTap @helio_girl #
- Sometimes starting w/"fuck you" is simply great. :) Thx @sexgenderbody @Bluegal! ♺ @KinkOnTap 49: Can I Get A "Fuck You" http://ur1.ca/0onrf #
My tweets on 2010-07-14
- IMPORTANT, easily digestible run-down of opening arguments in #obscenity trial against John #Stagliano http://bit.ly/9OkOXP /by @amandahess #
- ♺@CharlieSheena Minute we allow US Govt to tell US what we're allowed to be turned on by is the min we need to stop paying taxes. #obscenity #
- ♺ @MissAuroraSnow: #Stagliano prosecutor doesn't have much #sex Rattled off descriptions of #porn in general & alluded it's all #obscenity #
- #Stagliano trial's a classic political waste of $. BP oil spill, huge financial fraud, govt lies that started 2 wars. Now THAT'S #obscenity #
- Watch @LoganLevkoff bark back at this idiot FRC homophobe on Fox News! http://vb.ly/2bid He literally said #SexEd could "trigger" being gay. #
- 2 new careful lists: @maymaym/unethical-sex-commerce & @maymaym/ethical-sex-commerce. Send me suggestions, but provide reasoning & evidence. #
- That's odd: http://ht.ly/2b2U3 #Stagliano #obscenity trial judge issues headsets to only 2 local reporters—sounds like #PrejudiceNotJustice #
- @LoganLevkoff Thank YOU for having the ovaries to face that bigot. And on Faux News! The FRC is so full of shit I could smell it on YouTube! in reply to LoganLevkoff #
- @TheKhaetlyn Thank you for speaking out! I believe adults need to listen to #youth more often. See also http://vimeo.com/7783159 & #adultism in reply to TheKhaetlyn #
- Yet again, #porn on front lines defending YOU against #sex prejudice. Do NOT write #Stagliano case off: http://ur1.ca/0oc2r /cc #sexpositive #
- ♺ @GreysMatters: Inspired by @KinkOnTap episode http://is.gd/dr4kU I've started a Pro-Porn series: Pants-On #Porn Reviews http://is.gd/dr3qx #
- @deadsuperhero It's by me, it's @GreysMatter. Contact them about getting involved, tho. Or start your ow … http://identi.ca/notice/41291162 #
- @deadsuperhero It's not by me, it's @GreysMatter. Contact them re getting involved tho. Or start your ow … http://identi.ca/notice/41291218 #
- Nice.♺@KinkOnTap Court says #fuck that #censorship shit to "unconstitutionally vague" #FCC bans on "indecent" utterances http://ur1.ca/0oe72 #
- OTOH hi #censorship ♺@KinkOnTap Hastily-passed Mass. #law outlaws ALL #Internet communiqués deemed "harmful to minors." http://ur1.ca/0oe7g #
- @LadyInToyland No, it's not. That's the point. Adults often think things that are NOT "harmful to minors" are. See: http://vimeo.com/7783159 in reply to LadyInToyland #
- @Elodie_T Therein lies the trouble with "#obscenity." The idea that "I know it when I see it" is, IMHO, a shoddy explanation. Read the post. in reply to Elodie_T #
- #Internet #dating: everyone's 20% poorer, 2in shorter & 80% less #bisexual than they say: http://3.ly/dE9G /by @OkCupid ♺ @saizai #KinkOnTap #
- http://ConfessionsOfAPornAddict.com is hilarious! We could host #antiporn #noporn movie night! :D /cc @clarissethorn #pornaddiction #proporn #
- Completely & totally unable to get any #sleep despite trying for 2+hrs. That's always annoying but even more so is that I feel wiped out. :( #
- @PostmodSexgeek Sadly, they're not allowed & male subs rarely see themselves positively. You can't be you can't see. Hence, @MaleSubmission. in reply to PostmodSexgeek #
- @quietriot_girl That's a constant (but important) undercurrent. On that note, you may find my @Femquake posts interesting: http://vb.ly/2bjo in reply to quietriot_girl #
- Remember this when next I angst: It will always be easier to incite controversy than it is to think critically, to frighten than to empower. #
- #Disney as an antidote to #sex #shame: "dude, if I was 3 and getting off on this stuff, I ain't corrupted." http://ur1.ca/0ohis #BDSM #youth #
- @DrPetra I abhor such disregard for #ethics & #transparency For example: http://ur1.ca/0ohjg So typical of conservative antiporn activists. in reply to DrPetra #
- @PostmodSexgeek I want to update more but btw @MaleSubmission @KinkOnTap @KinkForAll etc I'm stretched a bit thin—but thx for sharing it. :) in reply to PostmodSexgeek #
- @DrPetra Well, no. Only ppl w/certain varieties of wealth have this privilege—most don't know the level of #transparency truly available. :( in reply to DrPetra #
- @DrPetra So good to hear you say this. My lack of formal #education makes me a #heretic http://ur1.ca/t4vr But all rebels are heretics 1st. in reply to DrPetra #
- @DrPetra Agreed. I often emphasize, "I'm just some guy w/website. You can be, too." #Transparency surfaces quality: http://vimeo.com/6579943 in reply to DrPetra #
My tweets on 2010-07-13
- @msnaughty Its author is @dirtylaundry_hd. That's fluff; no info, pure link-bait for #antiporn sites. #Proporn needs more mainstream #media in reply to msnaughty #
- http://MakeASafeCall.org looks VERY cool. Automated way to make a #safe call. Built by #sex workers, prob useful for everyone. /via @swopusa #
- "All problems related to #sex €¦can be traced to resistance, suppression & repression" http://3.ly/D95P /by @deepakchopra via @livingsexuality #
- "identifiable details of [up to 1 million] #GLBT #youth is up for grabs to the highest bidder" due to website bankruptcy http://ur1.ca/0o1d0 #