- Hanging out on the radio w/@helio_girl. :) Listen to us live right now at http://FCCFreeRadio.com. Talking lots about @KinkOnTap, of course. #
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My tweets on 2010-07-19
My tweets on 2010-07-18
- Glad that @helio_girl is at #owc2 with me. Thx to @sarahdopp for the ride, @musingvirtual for organizing us! :) @sanbeiji, find me & say hi! #
- #OWC2 starts with @mollydotcom polling audience by asking for some personal stories. Interesting tack—sometimes tough to get people talking. #
- You don't have to "opt-in to brakes" when you buy a car @mollydotcom says at #OWC2 drawing analogy to #WebStandards open web+data formats. #
- "IE is absolutely committed to HTML5," @mollydotcom says at #OWC2 "There's no browser not working on what they think is #HTML5 " ;) #webdev #
- "The things we argue for—open web, #WebStandards €”they shouldn't be an argument cuz [we were always meant to have them]." -@mollydotcom #OWC2 #
- @helio_girl #WebStandards raise your quality of technical life; they provide some base measure of #interoperability Like light bulbs. #OWC2 in reply to helio_girl #
- Whenever we talk #quality I think we need to define #audience #WebStandards try to impose some of qualities for an UNKNOWN audience. #OWC2 #
- "If you're working on the Web, don't kid yourself: you're part of evolution. You're part of a revolution." -@mollydotcom #WebStandards #OWC2 #
- @musingvirtual Yes that's exaclty my point. #Quality is all about perception—minimum, maximum, whatev. It's a similar conversation to #a11y in reply to musingvirtual #
- @musingvirtual I think so, yes. I think most people don't define #quality hence #a11y #security etc don't meet "minimum standards." #owc2 in reply to musingvirtual #
- TOTALLY. #Tech = life. :) ♺ @helio_girl: "Backward Compatible"-accept what came before. …draw connections to the world beyond the Web. #owc2 #
- Sorry to miss @benadida at #OWC2 but big congrats to you & your family, Sir! :) Instead, listening to @johnallsopp talking abt an open web. #
- THIS is why #antiporn #noporn fear-mongers hate #transparency USE IT TO FIGHT THEM. ♺@viviane212 Transparency is neutral—it takes no sides. #
- "App stores are—seriously—a form of #slavery " @johnallsopp says at #OWC2 Harsh words. Hard for me to argue with that, tho. #Open #Internet #
- At #OWC2 @johnallsopp is demoing http://mugtug.com/darkroom as an example of a #Web app to dispel myth that Web apps aren't "slick & sexy." #
- Fuck yeah SVG FTW BBQ! ♺ @helio_girl: Next to me @maymaym quietly cheers when #SVG comes up in @johnallsopp's talk. Yes dear. We know. #owc2 #
- Dear @estellevw: I'm sorry to be interrupting your #CSS talk but I'm sure you're doing great! Y'all should visit http://Standardista.com. ;) #
- Oh, nice. #W3C #Geo #API "lets you ask how accurate [the current position] is." Where's that function? Big opportunity for better #UX #OWC2 #
- Ah! #W3C #Geo #API has position.coords.accuracy member variable. Not sure what its value means, yet…but, good to know. Thx @chaals. :) #OWC2 #
- @helio_girl It's basic variable handling, like a "light bulb." It's a "key" that refers to a specific "value." Variables are language. #OWC2 in reply to helio_girl #
- Hearing @stubbornella talk at #OWC2 is very cool. Her work was the foundation for the #CSS optimization writing I did in http://tr.im/advcss #
- "When we get the #architecture right, things get really tiny. …a minor change of thinking" has a HUGE impact @stubbornella says at #OWC2 :) #
- "If your architecture is wrong, it WILL fail. You can put a lot of effort into making it fail slower, but…." Applicable to EVERYTHING. #OWC2 #
- "You have to be willing to look at [your #webdesign like repeating patterns," @stubbornella says. Gotta find the correct granularity. #OWC2 #
- Don't confuse "truly stale" #CSS code (rules never used, ever) w/"kind of stale" (rules activated on user actions). #webdev #webdesign #OWC2 #
- Location-dependant #CSS (`.foo h2` / `.bar h2`) is bad for reusability. Declare self-contained rules based on element purpose instead. #OWC2 #
- To improve #reusability avoid using #CSS to style IDs. Those should be used for #JavaScript while classes should be used for styles. #OWC2 #
- "It's important to define what you know" @stubbornella says at #OWC2 "so you can begin to reuse it." Also world beyond web, @helio_girl? :) #
- It's very VERY nice to hear @stubbornella consistently give #attributions to collaborators who did good work during her #presentation #OWC2 #
- @stubbornella Location dependant styles hamper reusability! :) CSS Summit ahoy? :) #
- @helio_girl If I'm right…. We'll see if @stubbornella accepts my answer about #CSS location-dependance and reusability. :) G'luck all. #OWC2 in reply to helio_girl #
- Missed start of A11y 101 in favor of #geeking out over the future of #CSS ala http://ur1.ca/0pkka http://ur1.ca/0pkkd w/@stubbornella. #OWC2 #
- @musingvirtual @jennison Sorry, I'm not sure if that's something I can do at the moment. :( Anyone at #OWC2 able+willing to set up a stream? in reply to musingvirtual #
- @stubbornella Yay! Thx for the chance! =) I saw you try to email me but sadly I don't seem to have an email from you. (And I can't DM you…?) in reply to stubbornella #
- Providing morale support for @sanbeiji from the back of the room. :) He's from the good government. Our #CSS book: http://tr.im/advcss #OWC2 #
- #Webdevs aren't a homogenous bunch. @sanbeiji's live demo extending blog template shows how 90% of "web designers" treat "developing." #OWC2 #
- Spontaneous #vim user #bof in the back of @sanbeiji's #OWC2 presentation when he asked about #editors Lots of people like the GUIs. Not us! #
- FTR: "They did it wrong" is smart-ass answer. Still, #SVG fonts used in #CSS as shown by @sanbeiji really is harder than it should be. #OWC2 #
- I THINK non-smart-ass-answer re #SVG fonts is referencing 'em in #CSS requires you to access it as XML element. Right me if I'm wrong! #OWC2 #
- More on #SVG web #fonts (especially in Mobile Safari): http://ur1.ca/0pld0 http://ur1.ca/0pld4 http://ur1.ca/0pld6 http://ur1.ca/0pld9 #OWC2 #
- #Tech overlap: certain #WAI ARIA roles, states & properties duplicate #HTML5 Eg., aria-required="true" & required="required". #webdev #OWC2 #
- Yup—it's like XML. ♺@nikolasco: @maymaym Eg. url("coolfont.svg#somefont") where coolfont.svg has <font id="somefont"> #SVG #fonts #CSS #OWC2 #
- O hai new followers. Note my updates are not safe for work (depending on what you do for work). I talk sex, politics, activism, AND tech. ;) #
My tweets on 2010-07-17
- It is a fucking DISGRACE TO AMERICA that #pornographers are more credible than FBI agents, federal prosecutors & judges: http://ur1.ca/0p7ow #
- Yay! #Stagliano charges dismissed! To sexual freedom advocates: WE ARE NOT SAFE until #obscenity insanity is laughable. /via @RichardAbowitz #
- Antiporn activists' wet dream soured as obscenity charges against John "Buttman" Stagliano dismissed http://3.ly/HHEp via @KinkOnTap #noporn #
- @sweet_carolanne Bluntly: get real & don't fool yourself. Your tentacle femmslash is on the chopping block. We NEED your voice—pls speak UP. in reply to sweet_carolanne #
- If you think #Stagliano trial is a "victory" for freedom, THINK AGAIN: case was dismissed on procedural ground. You & I are NOT freer today. #
- @sweet_carolanne No single site—it's ALL sites ALL the time. Speak up wherever+whenever you can. Write posts+leave comments http://3.ly/HHEp in reply to sweet_carolanne #
- @JimNorton @blix206 @MissAuroraSnow @dangerrob @Misstabstevens @RichardAbowitz Victory for Stagliano, NOT for our freedom: http://vb.ly/2bna in reply to JimNorton #
- Dear #sexuality #educators, professionals & safer #sex experts: seems #Wikipedia needs your #help http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Safer_sex :) #
- Good start! ♺ @HiOhMegan: @TheCSPH released it's first YouTube #video today. http://ow.ly/2cDpZ "What Does #Sexual #Empowerment Mean to Me?" #
My tweets on 2010-07-16
- 2weeks of "other side" research leaves me short-tempered. How do you purge yourself of such bile? They're worse than roaches. /cc @HiOhMegan #
- @makomk I feel you're reading a LOT into @enagoski's post. I also believe rape fantasies can be enacted w/o "violence." It's happened to me. in reply to makomk #
- @makomk That's a specious interpretation of sex, and especially of #BDSM play. Happy to discuss the issue elsewhere. SA: http://ur1.ca/0ov1u in reply to makomk #
- Featuring @DrMartyKlein @GailDines @ptrueman. ♺ @HiOhMegan: MUST SEE protecting sexual free speech: http://ur1.ca/0ouvv /cc #proporn #noporn #
- "groups like @EIETweets & @FRCBlog lie, cheat & steal to oppose #porn €¦" http://bit.ly/ahQ8l7 They also astroturf Wikipedia: http://3.ly/B2Xu #
- @MsMagazine Isn't there any way you can whitelist my comments? I keep getting "awaiting moderation" almost certainly due to number of links. #
- @jeffjarvis Wait, are you saying 'Fresh Air' SHOULD be dropped? That's utterly silly. It's no more explicit than, say, http://KinkOnTap.com. in reply to jeffjarvis #
- Mississippi @NPR affiliate drops nationally-syndicated radio show for jokes about #sex with one's shirt on: http://3.ly/SDfK /via @KinkOnTap #
My tweets on 2010-07-15
- "With every tech advance we see greater democratization of #culture generally, but certainly sexually explicit expression." http://3.ly/7vuv #
- ♺ @KinkOnTap: French approve burqa ban citing "freedom against [humiliation]." Like humiliation of being told how to dress? http://3.ly/7Rsm #
- ♺ @only_imagined: Sorry if this is #BDSM 102 Q. What's alternative to a "reaction top"? Can't grok @SaraEileen's original post. /cc @maymaym #
- @echomikeromeo Interesting! Remember to tweet links w/the #KinkOnTap hashtag to automatically push them to our links #feed http://3.ly/NS35 in reply to echomikeromeo #
- You know you're the #new #media when people start misquoting you all over. This is going to get interesting—fast. /cc @KinkOnTap @helio_girl #
- Sometimes starting w/"fuck you" is simply great. :) Thx @sexgenderbody @Bluegal! ♺ @KinkOnTap 49: Can I Get A "Fuck You" http://ur1.ca/0onrf #
My tweets on 2010-07-14
- IMPORTANT, easily digestible run-down of opening arguments in #obscenity trial against John #Stagliano http://bit.ly/9OkOXP /by @amandahess #
- ♺@CharlieSheena Minute we allow US Govt to tell US what we're allowed to be turned on by is the min we need to stop paying taxes. #obscenity #
- ♺ @MissAuroraSnow: #Stagliano prosecutor doesn't have much #sex Rattled off descriptions of #porn in general & alluded it's all #obscenity #
- #Stagliano trial's a classic political waste of $. BP oil spill, huge financial fraud, govt lies that started 2 wars. Now THAT'S #obscenity #
- Watch @LoganLevkoff bark back at this idiot FRC homophobe on Fox News! http://vb.ly/2bid He literally said #SexEd could "trigger" being gay. #
- 2 new careful lists: @maymaym/unethical-sex-commerce & @maymaym/ethical-sex-commerce. Send me suggestions, but provide reasoning & evidence. #
- That's odd: http://ht.ly/2b2U3 #Stagliano #obscenity trial judge issues headsets to only 2 local reporters—sounds like #PrejudiceNotJustice #
- @LoganLevkoff Thank YOU for having the ovaries to face that bigot. And on Faux News! The FRC is so full of shit I could smell it on YouTube! in reply to LoganLevkoff #
- @TheKhaetlyn Thank you for speaking out! I believe adults need to listen to #youth more often. See also http://vimeo.com/7783159 & #adultism in reply to TheKhaetlyn #
- Yet again, #porn on front lines defending YOU against #sex prejudice. Do NOT write #Stagliano case off: http://ur1.ca/0oc2r /cc #sexpositive #
- ♺ @GreysMatters: Inspired by @KinkOnTap episode http://is.gd/dr4kU I've started a Pro-Porn series: Pants-On #Porn Reviews http://is.gd/dr3qx #
- @deadsuperhero It's by me, it's @GreysMatter. Contact them about getting involved, tho. Or start your ow … http://identi.ca/notice/41291162 #
- @deadsuperhero It's not by me, it's @GreysMatter. Contact them re getting involved tho. Or start your ow … http://identi.ca/notice/41291218 #
- Nice.♺@KinkOnTap Court says #fuck that #censorship shit to "unconstitutionally vague" #FCC bans on "indecent" utterances http://ur1.ca/0oe72 #
- OTOH hi #censorship ♺@KinkOnTap Hastily-passed Mass. #law outlaws ALL #Internet communiqués deemed "harmful to minors." http://ur1.ca/0oe7g #
- @LadyInToyland No, it's not. That's the point. Adults often think things that are NOT "harmful to minors" are. See: http://vimeo.com/7783159 in reply to LadyInToyland #
- @Elodie_T Therein lies the trouble with "#obscenity." The idea that "I know it when I see it" is, IMHO, a shoddy explanation. Read the post. in reply to Elodie_T #
- #Internet #dating: everyone's 20% poorer, 2in shorter & 80% less #bisexual than they say: http://3.ly/dE9G /by @OkCupid ♺ @saizai #KinkOnTap #
- http://ConfessionsOfAPornAddict.com is hilarious! We could host #antiporn #noporn movie night! :D /cc @clarissethorn #pornaddiction #proporn #
- Completely & totally unable to get any #sleep despite trying for 2+hrs. That's always annoying but even more so is that I feel wiped out. :( #
- @PostmodSexgeek Sadly, they're not allowed & male subs rarely see themselves positively. You can't be you can't see. Hence, @MaleSubmission. in reply to PostmodSexgeek #
- @quietriot_girl That's a constant (but important) undercurrent. On that note, you may find my @Femquake posts interesting: http://vb.ly/2bjo in reply to quietriot_girl #
- Remember this when next I angst: It will always be easier to incite controversy than it is to think critically, to frighten than to empower. #
- #Disney as an antidote to #sex #shame: "dude, if I was 3 and getting off on this stuff, I ain't corrupted." http://ur1.ca/0ohis #BDSM #youth #
- @DrPetra I abhor such disregard for #ethics & #transparency For example: http://ur1.ca/0ohjg So typical of conservative antiporn activists. in reply to DrPetra #
- @PostmodSexgeek I want to update more but btw @MaleSubmission @KinkOnTap @KinkForAll etc I'm stretched a bit thin—but thx for sharing it. :) in reply to PostmodSexgeek #
- @DrPetra Well, no. Only ppl w/certain varieties of wealth have this privilege—most don't know the level of #transparency truly available. :( in reply to DrPetra #
- @DrPetra So good to hear you say this. My lack of formal #education makes me a #heretic http://ur1.ca/t4vr But all rebels are heretics 1st. in reply to DrPetra #
- @DrPetra Agreed. I often emphasize, "I'm just some guy w/website. You can be, too." #Transparency surfaces quality: http://vimeo.com/6579943 in reply to DrPetra #
My tweets on 2010-07-13
- @msnaughty Its author is @dirtylaundry_hd. That's fluff; no info, pure link-bait for #antiporn sites. #Proporn needs more mainstream #media in reply to msnaughty #
- http://MakeASafeCall.org looks VERY cool. Automated way to make a #safe call. Built by #sex workers, prob useful for everyone. /via @swopusa #
- "All problems related to #sex €¦can be traced to resistance, suppression & repression" http://3.ly/D95P /by @deepakchopra via @livingsexuality #
- "identifiable details of [up to 1 million] #GLBT #youth is up for grabs to the highest bidder" due to website bankruptcy http://ur1.ca/0o1d0 #
My tweets on 2010-07-12
- More #Wikipedia POV edits by EconProfessor. WP:COI more clear, so I spoke up: http://ur1.ca/0mp91 See also: http://identi.ca/notice/39551088 #
- @pledgemistress That's just part 1. Part 2: http://3.ly/trmF Part 3: http://3.ly/hHVF Part 4: http://3.ly/9qHY Information wants to be free. in reply to pledgemistress #
- @FemWho I think Wikipedians' conduct indicative of overall style. EconProfessor's lack of transparency typical of #antitrafficking movement. in reply to FemWho #
- New-to-me #data #visualization: http://j.mp/aYbAzu #SF #039;s #crime rate as a topological map. What else could it be useful for? /via @noisegirl #
- For "discipline," UK teachers to get unequivocal powers to treat #youth like prisoners: http://ur1.ca/0n0yk Fucked. Up. /via @SchoolSurvival #
- Re-reading some articles in http://kinkontap.com/community/links/feed as prep to talk w/@Bluegal & @sexgenderbody: http://live.kinkontap.com #
- Sex blogs make great politics blogs, says @Bluegal. Well politics podcasters make great sexuality #podcasts ;) Thx for being on @KinkOnTap! #
- Gay "cure" almost here: http://3.ly/Y6az Is "orientation" argument flawed? There's better: http://3.ly/BWDT /via @SexDayUSA #GLBT #KinkOnTap #
- @fj Uh, I never said any of that. Please avoid making it easy for others to confuse your words w/ mine. I'm sure you can speak for yourself. in reply to fj #
- Honestly, I'm happy my meticulousness doesn't feel pernicious to you. :) ♺ @estellevw: My book's technical reviewer is awesome! /cc @maymaym #
- Listening to @DriftGlass & @Bluegal's July 9 show. They totally do mention @KinkOnTap. A LOT: http://dgbgpodcast.blogspot.com. Thx, you two! #
- @fj Okay, cool. :) Not angry, just got me concerned. Suffice it to say that there are some out there who've put words in my mouth before. ;) in reply to fj #
My tweets on 2010-07-11
- @jamesbcarp I read "High-Level, Moral Frames Matter More" as making your point. Lakoff's advice later is to do strategic+KISS communication. in reply to jamesbcarp #
- @jamesbcarp It was "high-level frames are…systems that define what is 'right'." To me, that reads "unquestioned." KISS=Keep It Simple Stupid in reply to jamesbcarp #
- ♺ @jamesbcarp Worth remembering Mehserle is a human too; his own reaction to killing Grant: http://bit.ly/bHrhBN Punitive law helps nothing. #
- This is hard: http://bit.ly/bHrhBN Punitive #law CAN help but it's NOT panacea many wish it is. punishment != reconciliation /cc @jamesbcarp #
- #Comments on @CindyGallop1's @MakeLoveNotPorn video are amazing: http://youtu.be/HJ3kP-0Mu3k Dear #proporn advocates: LEARN FROM THIS WOMAN. #
- According to her ex-research assistant, @GailDines is "just another bedfellow of #sex industry." http://3.ly/EgRd #antiporn #proporn #noporn #
- @iamcuriousblue I bet she knows. She isn't stupid; she'll use anything she can to emotionally trigger her choir. Here's how http://3.ly/Ysdw in reply to iamcuriousblue #
- More on @GailDines from her former research assistant http://3.ly/MkyA Could be Melanie Shapiro's story, too? /cc @pledgemistress @HiOhMegan #
- @jamesbcarp Yeah, I agree. I bet he's not writing "for the public," though. Then again, our whole exchange proves your point, doesn't it? ;) in reply to jamesbcarp #
- @jamesbcarp "Public space" doesn't ALWAYS mean "THE public." I like to think about "a public" v "a different public." SA http://ur1.ca/0mboh in reply to jamesbcarp #
- #GLBT activist BEHEADED, sexually mutilated in #Uganda http://KinkOnTap.com/?p=939 Why didn't I hear abt this on national news? Disgusting. #
- @SayenCroWolf Hey thanks! I'll go update the feeds about that immediately. It sounds like there's still a lot of mystery about the story. :( in reply to SayenCroWolf #
- UPDATE: #Uganda #GLBT activist death a hoax. See our update, link here: http://KinkOnTap.com/?p=939 Thx to @SayenCroWolf for the tip! Pls RT #
- #Internet ability to filter info is astoundingly useful & requires astounding care. Props to @SayenCroWolf and @xMech for helping me update. #
- @mizztcasa You're missing the link in your tweet. Consider sharing the link at http://vimeo.com/7783159 so people can see for themselves. :) in reply to mizztcasa #
- Amusing when you're trying to fact check another tech writer using Google but you keep getting your subjects own writings. :P /cc @estellevw #
My tweets on 2010-07-10
- @sarahdopp I think @SFWeekly is off-point about @KRON4News. http://is.gd/dm1g6 I'm not angry over poor coverage, but over #RACIST BLOODLUST. in reply to sarahdopp #
- "Justice is rooted in fairness. This verdict—and the system…we've created [in USA]—isn't fair." http://is.gd/dlY1I http://3.ly/Dbny #OGTrial #
- Part 2 of @ShiraTarrant's interview w/@GailDines @MsMagazine http://vb.ly/2bd1 My comment http://vb.ly/2be6 Is #antiporn REALLY about #porn #
- Really psyched that I'll get to talk about #DOMA & a heap of other stuff with @Bluegal AND @sexgenderbody on @KinkOnTap! http://ur1.ca/0m10n #
- @quietriot_girl Visit http://KinkOnTap.com/about to get more details about the show. Watch live at http://live.kinkontap.com on Mon 1AM UTC. in reply to quietriot_girl #
- Take heed: as #GLBT #rights inch toward reality haters'll argue identically ("your #sex is evil/immoral") to attack all #kink #poly #BDSM #
- I signed this. You should, too. ♺ @CourageCampaign: Tell Obama: don't appeal the #DOMA decision: http://bit.ly/bgIJ1B Stand up for equality! #
- MUST READ about #politics & #linguistics http://ur1.ca/0m1u2 "Lakoff: Why Conservative Lies Spread" (and how to fight them) /via @RicciLevy #
- Have you "liked" @TheCSPH on @Facebook yet? http://vb.ly/csphfb I did! Support the many #sex positive new #media projects pouring out of it! #
- @jamesbcarp No, article doesn't obfuscate that point—it MAKES that point. And simplicity's key to both thinking+unthinking: http://3.ly/HrKw in reply to jamesbcarp #
- @enagoski Did you see http://vb.ly/2bed? Bering replies to http://ur1.ca/0m2dr Also, @violetblue, what makes you say @enagoski is #antiporn #
- @violetblue I also read both; didn't see @enagoski "accusing" gay—seems harsh at best. Mountain out of molehill indeed. SA http://vb.ly/28bf in reply to violetblue #
- @violetblue Re #antiporn or #proporn only recently aware of @enagoski's work, but be sure to read her view on @GailDines: http://vb.ly/2beg in reply to violetblue #
- @debaucheddiva Well I wouldn't bet @GailDines is—how should I say—creative. OTOH, she stays on-msg. We also need to: diversity+transparency. in reply to debaucheddiva #
- @iamcuriousblue @violetblue Right. @enagoski's post was off, but @JesseBering's response seems blown out of proportion. SA http://vb.ly/2bek in reply to iamcuriousblue #
- @SheLovesSex @PostmodSexgeek Neither http://makelovenotporn.com nor @CindyGallop1 are #antiporn See about page—why baffled? /cc @violetblue in reply to SheLovesSex #
- @PostmodSexgeek @SheLovesSex How would you prefer @CindyGallop1 to address tech- & marketing-heavy crowd? Doesn't sound so judgmental to me. in reply to PostmodSexgeek #
- @SheLovesSex I see your hesitation, but don't judge a book by its cover. Names are tough but @MakeLoveNotPorn is sex-positive in my book. :) in reply to SheLovesSex #
- @SheLovesSex So, "#proporn" is limiting, as it merely counters #antiporn I'm anti-inequitable-porn, but I'm not "antiporn." Always: nuance. in reply to SheLovesSex #
- @iamcuriousblue I think what it shows us is that Donna M. Hughes isn't just a #sex political #ideologue she seems to enjoy holding grudges. in reply to iamcuriousblue #
- Shout-out to @xMech & @Airikiss for putting the @KinkOnTap #community link feed on their blog sidebar! You can do it, too: http://vb.ly/295x #
- "Confrontational" is certainly an accurate, fair way to describe me at times. :) http://vb.ly/2bep /cc @violetblue @enagoski @iamcuriousblue #
- @violetblue So, unconfuse me. :) In all honesty, I'm sorry for whatever it was that made you think I'm "attacking" you; I don't think I did. in reply to violetblue #
- @enagoski I'm reading your blog re #kink now. Thx. Since @violetblue seems unwilling to unconfuse me, how did you get lumped into #antiporn in reply to enagoski #
- #BDSM is "…an erotic context for what isn't ordinarily #sexy €¦" http://vb.ly/2bes "That makes #sadomasochism seem less freaky." /by @enagoski #
- @pledgemistress Maybe reminding your mother of the fact that what you're doing directly lowers the amount of hate crime that will happen? :) in reply to pledgemistress #
- DAYUM! This post on #orgasm #control is both hot and heavy AND filled with practical anatomical instruction: http://vb.ly/2beu /by @enagoski #
- LOL! It does feel that way doesn't it? I blame the economy. Oh, and conservatives. :P ♺ @IamFunball Has the world gone mental w/their drama? #
- Pretty spot-on commentary about @Jezebel's disingenuous claims of #sexism over The Daily Show: http://slate.com/id/2259434 /cc @MajaMajaMaja #
- @IamFunball Hah! That's me, by some peoples' definition. Or a sycophant. Whatever. When are you next going to be in SF? I'd love to chat. :) in reply to IamFunball #
- @sarahdopp "Good cop, bad cop" is very effective: http://vb.ly/gcbc I do find strategic+aggressive & compassionate+sensitive balance useful. in reply to sarahdopp #
- Good #advice "keep being fair, keep doing good work, and be intentional with your tangles." Sometimes you step in it. Sometimes you SHOULD. #
- @DrPetra As the good advice was given in a private conversation, I'll let the person who gave it to me identify themselves, if they wish. :) in reply to DrPetra #
